James 4:10 NIV
Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.
I had recently been praying for God to answer a prayer with a yes. I prayed nearly daily and sometimes more than twice a day. I wanted a yes badly. I was interceded on someone else's behalf and I prayed with confidence. The answer however was no.
What do you do when God answers your prayer with a no or a not yet? You surrender. You humble yourself unto Him. You trust Him and trust that His plans for you are greater than anything that you could think or imagine (Ephesians 3:20).
You praise instead of complain and you wait. You wait until He lifts you up. And He will lift you up as you remain humble because His word declares so and His word does not return void ( Isaiah 55:11). You trust that HIs ways are higher than yours (Isaiah 55:8-9)and believe that He knows best because He does.
We are human and disappointment is natural, but we must not wallow. God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). He will comfort you and work it all out for your good who are called according to His purpose. Take the next step in faith knowing God's got you even when the answer is no. His no is taking care of us too.
Father, I know that You hear our prayers and that You care about us. Help us to trust You even when your answer is a no because I know that You are opening a door in the process in the place where You would have us to be. You have good intentions towards us and we will trust in You. In Jesus name. Amen